Safety Plan

2: Safety When Preparing to Leave.

• Cellphones can have GPS tracking devices. If possible, get a new account or prepaid phone when you leave.
• Get a reloadable pre-paid debit card that you can put money on whenever able. Set aside small amounts of money when possible.
• Leave money, an extra set of keys, copies of important documents, extra medicines, and clothes with someone you trust.
• Determine who would be able to let you stay with them or lend you some money.
• Keep the shelter and important phone numbers handy. Consider hiding a prepaid phone for emergency use, or so your abuser cannot monitor your phone records.
• Review your safety plan as often as possible to plan the safest way to leave your batterer.

• Change the locks on your doors as soon as possible. Buy additional locks and safety devices to secure your windows.
• Discuss a safety plan with your children for when you are not with them.
• Inform your Children’s school, etc.
• Inform neighbors and landlord that your partner no longer lives with you and that they should call the police if they see him near your home.

• Always keep your protective order on you. Keep one in your purse, car, etc. Give a copy to a trusted neighbor or family member.
• Call the police if your partner breaks the protective order.
• Think of alternative ways to keep safe if the police do not respond right away.
• Inform family, friends, neighbors and your physician or health care provider that you have a protective order in effect.

• Decide who at work you will inform of your situation. This should include office or building security.
• Provide a picture of the batterer and vehicle if possible.
• Change your regular routine. Consider different routes to work, school, etc.
• Devise a safety plan for when you leave work. Have someone escort you to your car, or bus and wait with you until you are safely in route. Use a variety of routes to go home if possible.
• Think about what you would do if something happened while going home (in your car, on the bus, etc.).
• Always drive to a well-lit, populated location if you feel you are being followed.

• Your computer activity can be monitored. It is impossible to delete all trace of your activities. If you are being monitored, it may be dangerous to delete your history if that is not your regular habit.
• When looking up information about getting help, escape plans, new jobs, or places to live, only use a safe computer that your abuser does not have access to.
• Your calls from a cell phone can be seen on your bill. Make calls to shelters, lawyers, or others for help from a public phone or a prepaid cell phone.

• If you are thinking of returning to a potentially abusive situation, discuss an alternative plan with someone you trust.
• If you must communicate with your partner, determine the safest way to do so, generally in a very public spot.
• Have positive thoughts about yourself and be assertive with others about your needs. Read books, articles and poems to help you feel stronger.
• Decide who you can call to talk freely and openly to give you the support you need.
• Plan to attend a women’s or victim’s support group to gain support from others and learn more about you and the relationship.